I feel that if I show affection, he’ll take it as a come on for sex so I just don’t do it
: Wow, I could have written exactly what you have. We’ve been married for 16 years and love each other so much, but he has a high sex drive and mine is non-existent! My husband threatened to leave me and our 13 year old daughter last week because he couldn’t take it anymore; he wanted someone to love him.
We made up as we always do because we have a very open and communicative relationship, but I have this inner battle that I wish could be resolved
I convinced him not to leave me and give me a chance to change. We’ve become closer and bridged the gap over the past few days and affection feels easier now and I’m determined not to let it drift again.
I’m a kind, caring person but sometimes I just feel emotionally numb. I’m suffering from depression at the moment and I’m on meds and I have a counseling session in a couple of weeks. I spoke to my doc today who advised me to discuss my issues fully with the counselor. I’m hoping this will help and I’ll get some answers as to why I am the way I am. I would do anything to be “gushy and touchy feely” with my hubby. (altro…)